Unfortunately, our family has experienced several deaths around the holidays, so our heart goes out to anyone who has to endure the same.
Our dad died in early January six years ago, after an illness where we watched him suffer through Christmas and New Year’s. Our brother died five days before Christmas a few years later.
So we extend our condolences and sympathy to HSN jewelry vendor Carol Brodie, who lost her dad this New Year’s. Carol wrote a wonderful eulogy for her father on Facebook. He was a wonderful man.
Grieving and loss comes to all of us, for not only the people that graced our lives but the pets.
We guess some folks will think us silly and stupid to talk about the death of a father and a cat in the same breath, but we will. Last week JTV host Kristen Keech became tearful and lost her composure when she discussed the loss of her beloved red cat earlier last year.
For those of us like Kristen, who have not had children, the bond with a pet is especially strong. We’ve been living with my late mom’s hairless cats since she passed away last June.
They are our companions every day. They are family.
The Sunday New York Times today did a small profile of a Buddhist monk in NYC who lost his husband last year and finds great comfort with their pet cat, a furry black-and-white fellow who wakes him up every morning and sleeps with him every night.
We went to the cemetery last week to the grave of our mom and dad. We miss and still mourn them.
We pray for those who have experienced their own losses, Carol and Kristen.